Maren,
You should find out about the doctor and his or her c-section rate. When I was pregnant with my first, I was so concerned with having the perfect birth experience, no intervention, a birth plan, a doula, and a female OB. The truth is that the experience was far from perfect, I had a difficult labor, had to be induced after 3 days of trying to do it narutally because I wasn't dialating, and was in so much pain, even after the epidural wore off, I pushed for 3 hours. Believe me, things are never what we plan for. The truth is, the doctor has to do their job, so find someone you feel good about, trust them and in the process. The most important thing is that the baby is born safe and healthy. I would spend your energy figuring out what you're going to do right after the birth, who is going to help you, if you're going to nurse, talk to lactation consultants now, just in case you have trouble later, which I did. I wish someone would have told me what I am telling you now. Save your energy for the birth and the postpartum. You will be tired! I swore I would never have another baby again! But I did, and the second time, I just trust the doctor 100%, and it was much easier. Best of luck to you, hope I didn't scare you, but the I felt the truth had to be told.