L.,
Unfortunately you are not alone with this problem. Schools are a severe challenge in this area--leaving many parents and students frustrated and disappointed. I am former teacher and current Education Consultant. I was drawn into this type of work because I wanted to do something that empowered parents and students--especially the average parent that might not have $30,000 to spend on a 4th grade education. I am very familiar with the school your child currently attends and agree that it is not a great (or good) school.
But there is hope! Some suggestions: Try to make it through the school year. School hopping is not good for kids. The school year is almost over--see if you can hang in there. Try to make a physical presence (or greater if you already have) at school with visiting, eating lunch with you child, field trips, etc. Supplement academic materials with things he can do at home. Start researching other schools closely--very closely for next school year. Options are out there.
I am a first time poster--I have enjoy this site but have never tried to post. I am not up to speed on what is appropriate or not but am giving you my email if you want to chat futher about this.
Wishing you success! C.
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