Hi K.
I know the feeling about being bambarded with stuffed animals!! My problem is that I feel my sister and sister-in-law are cleaning out their house of their clutter and pawning it on me because their kids are bigger and "don't need them anymore". Well, what makes them think it is something I or my daughter "needs"?
Anyway, to answer your question....
My daughter's first Christmas was fun, but my husband was the bad one. He bought tons of toys that were way too advanced for her and she is now 20 months as is still not interested in some of them.
My best advice is to ask for age appropriate musical toys.
V-tech puts out some great 6-12 month items that are not expensive at all. (leap frog and fisher price do also)
One in particular that kept my daughter's attention for a long time is a V-tech "Ball" that had shapes around it and played music with each shape that she pressed. Also the ball had the ability to roll back and forth which really kept her attention. It tells the baby the color of the shape, the name of the shape and also identifies 3 animals...a cat, a dog and a monkey. The animal's make their sounds also. It is not a terribly noisy item and is easily held and rolled by the baby. At 6 months she may bat at it and laugh as she touches the shapes, but you will see as she gets bigger, she will respond differently and get more from the product each day.
We got it in Walmart last year and I think it was just 11 or 12 dollars.
Just remember "age appropriate".
Textures are still great at her age.
Also if you sew, the craft stores sell material to make these great cloth books for babies. My Aunt made my daughter one and she gave it to her when she was 8 months old. My daughter is almost 2 and she still loves it because there are so many shapes, items and colors on it, she always learns something new with it. And now she is naming all the items and gets so excited that she can do this now.
I would push for books with textures and shapes.
those toys to place the shapes in the holes,
musical items, things with lights and sounds.
Hope these suggestions help!
P.
P.S. one item you could ask family members to get for her is a great item called "Twilight Turtle" it is made by "Cloud B". It is a plush turtle that has a shell on it's back and at nighttime you put it on and it acts like a night light...but it reflects the stars onto the ceiling.
There are colored backgrounds you can pick from...blue, green and amber. It is a soothing way for your baby to learn to fall off to sleep by herself. (that and some lullabye music in the background...what could be more relaxing?)
Something you will be able to use for her for many many years to come. It is about $70 but if you shop around, some sites do sell it for a little less.
I am getting it for my daughter this Christmas..(If Grandma doesn't beat me to it ;)
Also, when your baby gets older, then you and she can lay on her bed and look for different stars and constellations b/c it comes with a map for doing so. It will grow with her and she will learn from it too!
Have a WONDERFUL FIRST CHRISTMAS WITH YOUR ANGEL!!!
God Bless Her!