S.B.
It is so important for you to get the sleep you need to be a good wife and mother. You have to start your day the way you want and at the time you want. It is your life that baby has joined. you are his first teacher and you are the absolute bar none expert on how your house should be run. With that feeling of confidence approach all these problems just as you would if you were hosting guests in your home. Make sure he has had enough to eat during the day, enough exercise to help him grow strong. Set aside an hour or so before bed with relaxing stories and bath and music so he is eased into bed and not dropped from a busy world. Don't go to him immediately when he wakes up, allow him to amuse himself with the mobile or the mirror or whatever you can safely put within his sight while in the crib. A clock radio that can be set to give him some music may keep him happy even if he is awake. At first you may only get 10 minutes but you can ease that into a half hour in a week, I bet. If it still doesn't work, try waking him just before you go to bed and giving him some milk to hold him over. Most importantly get your sleep. the most important gift you can give your child is a happy mom and dad in a peaceful home.