Ok here it goes. I have responded to emails but never requested a response. I am having issues with my ex. He has not seen our daughter since December. That is our daughter together. He raised my daughter from the age of 3 and doesn't want to see her anymore because she is not his blood, which is a whole different issue. Anyway our daughter just turned 5 last week. She does not really talk about him much because we were separated a long time before we actually divorced. Every weekend that is supposedly "his" he calls and says he is coming to get her. I don't tell her because he never shows up. Well last weekend he got mad at me and told me he was taking her for the whole weekend. According to the decree I have to let him if he chooses. He doesn't really want her but he was mad at me. He called on Tuesday to let me know that he doesn't want her to spend the night because he doesn't trust his roommate around her. This really concerns me. Although he has not taken her for a night, what do I do when he decides to? What makes him not trust his roommate? Is there anyway I can prevent her from spending the night? I know if I take him back to court he is going to think that I am doing it because he is engaged to be married. That has nothing at all to do with anything. I can't stand the guy and I feel sorry for the fiance. He will probably do her and her kids the same way he did me and his first wife. That is her problem. Please if you have any advice or have been in a similar situation please share with me. Thanks in advance.
I understand what you ar saying and I think that you should ask for supervised visitations and that would probably ease your mind a little that way you would know that your daughter is safe and that you and her are comfortable.
Good Luck, T.
I think you should get some type of statement in writing that he does not trust his roommate. You have all the right to not let her stay overnight if he says something like that. Or he could just be saying that b/c he does not want to be bothered with her spending the night.
If a guy I didnt like in the first place said that his roommate was untrustworthy, I'd keep my daughter as far away from him as I could.
Dont let her go to the house ever again with that roommate there. U can go against that decree if there is a threatening situation, and this is. Also for a man to say that, u better listen!! A document isnt worth the a tender soul
