I will tell you, there is no 'easy' way to do it. I am a mother of two, just had my boy a week ago, most of the weight is gone, but there is some toning to do...I did some personal training for single/married mothers, and this is the bottom line, weight pills, do help, if they are accompannied by a good excersize program and healthier eating, now you do not have to eat 3 grapes, with half teaspoon of this blah blah, that is just not right. eat what you want, however keep this one GOLDEN rule in mind....SIMPLE:
Burn more calories in a day that you take in.
you know ABOUT how many are in things , you don't have to be a vreazy counter, but just know that if you burn more than you consume...it is impossible not to lose weight.
Good high calorie/ low impact workouts:
Eliptical machines, great on joints and knees...and burning calories.
Classes...spinning/ Funk areobics...( all at Omni Fitness a great gym)
Swimming is not the best form, contrary to popular belief you actually have to work out for a lot longer to get the same calories burnage :)...I have so much more, if you want to get a hold of me , I can help you on a more one to one, if you want. I am an email away :)..as I will be working on loosing it as well...being as I just had the baby a week ago.
Good luck.