A.C.
I have been a single mom since my daughter was an infant. She just turned 14. It was very scary at first, but once I got used to it, I decided that I love it. I don't have to share or compromise. All of the responsibility is mine, but so are all of the rewards. My daughter can never use the excuses "but dad said I could", or "dad will let me" etc...Also being just the two of us, I am able to do more for her and us than if I had more people in the family. I would trade raising her alone. No it's not always easy, and money can get tight, but you are stronger than you realize and you can do this. If you contact the local YWCA in your area, they can direct you to all of the services available to help you, and like Beth said, get an attorney and arrange custody and child support. Just because you weren't married it doesn't give you automatic custody, and no matter how you still feel about this man, you need court ordered child support to ensure that your daughter is being taken care of by BOTH parents. Good Luck, and stay strong.