I met a couple who had adopted. I wanted to know what you had to do to become an adoptive parent. Hubby and I went to the state children's home adoptive agency and inquried. I figured we would get a child in about three years. Well, we had a baby in about five months from the time we inquired until we got a baby.
The agency asked if we wanted an older 3 to 5 or a baby. I stated a baby because it would not be fair for me to have a 3 year old and not know the workings of a baby. We just were lucky - baby came about through a monthly meeting of all the local adoption agencies in town, we received baby about three weeks before our second wedding anniversary (2 year minimum) and have had him ever since. He will be 39 this year
We gave a child a home that would not have had one or would have been lost in the system. Three years later we had our natural child a girl. So we have one of each. I tell they are special because they both have papers (adoptive (son), citizenship papers (daughter) she was born out of country. Of course daughter (soon to be 35) keeps saying we got a bad deal on son and should have returned him to the store for a refund.
It's a special thing to adopt and make a permanent home. It is a special thing to be a foster parent. I couldn't do the foster because I have a hard time letting people go once I get attached.
Go with your heart when you are ready to expand your family.
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