A lot of people here will disagree with this because I know a lot of moms on the boards don't believe in the "cry it out" method. BUT, I had the same problem with my daughter when she was about a year old. I was also pregnant, so I was really exhausted and finally went to her pediatrician. He is a father of triplets and said the most effective way to get your kids on a schedule is to just let them cry it out. At the time, when I tried that, my daughter would actually get so worked up that she would puke! But, I trusted him, so I did it. He said that if I go in when she pukes, then she will "learn" that if she pukes, I will come in. So, I would just go in after she would fall asleep and clean things up. She always stood when she cried, so it was only a little on the floor. There were nights when she would wake up and cry for what seemed like forever! It bothered me so much, but he said they learn very quickly so if I stuck it out, it would only take a few nights before she'd stop crying so much, and possibly sleep through her first night by then. Well, he was right! It was on the fourth night that she slept the whole night through for the very first time ever!!!! Now, she is a wonderful sleeper. I truly believe that kids only do what they're taught. If you teach them that when they wake up, all they have to do is cry and you'll come running, then they're going to wake up and cry until you come. Once you teach them that at night you're not coming, they'll learn to comfort themselves when they wake up and fall right back to sleep on their own. It's hard, but it's what's best for the mother AND the child if everyone's getting an adequate amount of sleep. I think that letting my kids cry it out was one of the best decisions I made when it comes to nights. I lay my kids (now 3 and 4) down at 8 and they go right to sleep. They sleep until between 7-8 a.m. If they happen to wake up crying, they have to put themselves to bed the following night and if they're waking me up more than once on those nights, they get a spanking. Of course there are exceptions, like when they're sick, but otherwise, they know that "nighttime" is "sleeptime" for everyone in the house. Women have different excuses as to why letting them cry it out shouldn't be done, but my kids are wonderful kids that are independent and I'm a loving mother who gets her much needed sleep.