Hi D.,
I too have had a VBAC. My daughter was an emergency C-Section in 2002, and in 2006 I delivered my son vaginally. I was convinced at first that I would just end up having another C-Section because that's "what people do." As time went on through my pregnancy, I started thinking more about it and at about 36 weeks decided I was going to go for the VBAC.
Labor itself was extremely difficult. I didn't experience this with my daughter because I was only in labor for an hour before her heartrate started going nuts. With my son I was in labor for a week. I did go with the epidural, which made things so much better. My husband told me it was the first time he saw me smile in a week. The delivery itself was crazy. In a good way though! I felt my water break, called the nurse in who confirmed it did indeed break, called the doc in who told me I was ready to start pushing. Now the only downside to my late VBAC decision was the fact that I had not prepared myself for labor and delivery! I was scared out of my mind!
I only pushed 5 times and out came my baby boy, healthy as can be! The whole delivery process was like the ones you see in the movies. Completely different then with my daughter and my C-Section, no rushing around at all, very calm, just me, my husband, the nurse and the doctor in the room. I had no complications during my delivery at all. It was a 100% succesful VBAC and I was SO proud of myself for achieving it!
The recovery is different too. Yes, you are in pain for a while after birth. That isn't going to change, either way you go. The difference is, the pain from a C-Section lasts a lot longer and is a lot different (considering you've had surgery). I had a second degree tear with my son and yes, it hurt, and yes, I walked around like I had ridden a horse all night for awhile, but you heal quickly!
Not only is it worth the experience, it is worth it for the recovery process. If you have ANY questions, feel free to ask!