My son was molested by a women in Mesquite and wanted to touch base with other mothers that have been through court procedures or trials dealing with this kind of case. We have a confession just waiting for the court date in April. Need support going to court in April.
I came on this site today to aks for help in the same area. We just found out a 13 year old boy has been molesting my 4 year old daughter. I am not sure how long or to what extent. We are waiting on a forensic interview????spelling??? Anyway I would love to be a part of any group you find. We feel like our lives are falling apart.
best wishes,
M.
My sister was molested by my mothers boyfriend. In irving they provide couseling and other help to anyone who needs them. Also there is CASA the child advocate center it is free as well. I hope this helps.
M.
J. my heart breaks for you. I know that feeling and reading the other posts tears come to my eyes. I understand what the others are going thru cause I myself lived that life from the age of 5 till I was 13. For 8 yrs I lived with my father who did this to me along with 2 other men who molested me as well. It took till I was 30 yrs old to deal with the upbringing and to come to terms that it wasn't my fault but the fault of the one who is supposed to care for me and protect me. I have 2 daughters now and there isn't a day that doesn't go by that I hope to God that never happens to my precious daughters nor to my sons. I wish there had been a support group of this sort for people who are going thru this or that been been thru this. It destroys lives and sometimes it takes everything to crawl back out of that hole we were put in.
THe best advice I can give is love your son like there's tomorrow and be sure to tell him that is wasn't his fault no matter what he says.He will go thru a period of it being his fault and shame for not telling anyone due to fear. But once he gets the help everyone will come out good in the end. It will be a long road esp. if you have to go to court. At least you got to go to court my father or the others never had charges brought to them, so they walked away free.You have my heartfelt blessings and if you ever need to talk please feel free to talk or even to shed a tear...Take care and know that there are moms & dads here for you and understand what your going thru. D. ###-###-####.
I cannot imagine what you are going through - I'm sorry; I have not dealt with this problem, but I will pray for healing for you and your family.
Hi, J.!
Please, check out the Dallas Children's Advocacy Center's site at www.dcac.org. On the "Community" page, you will find centers and groups for counseling and support services, and I'm sure you can contact them for more information. I know they have classes there on "what to do now" for the parents to help their children, with child-sitting provided.
