From all of your posts, I've gathered that men suck, CPS sucks, your current situation sucks, 'this culture' sucks (which culture would that be, by the way?), and SIDS isn't a real disorder, all within the past 24 hours. The only common denominator here is you. Maybe you should revisit how you are choosing to comunicate with others, both here on this site and at home. You are raising a lot of tempers and with that kind of attitude and lack of expanded vocabulary (you need to find another choice word for 'suck' (it's getting old)), I wouldn't want to talk with you either. Who wants to be around such narrow minded (per your FB friend post) negativity, especially when it's directed at him?
And just for the record, my husband can be a huge pain in my butt, but no, he doesn't suck.