A.K.
i just wanted to say that is great that your husband is such a great husband and father. My husband is in the same boat as yours- and I am truly blessed to find someone like him. My gift idea is a book. We did it for my cousin recently who is also a father- his wife sent emails to all his friends and family for them to write a letter to your husband and include photos if you have them. All the letters and pictures were put in a binder in protective sheets and that was his gift. The binder was huge and it brought tears to his eyes to see how appreciated his friends and his family was. It was a secret-so make sure no one tells him about it. It was great- when my husband turns 40, I would love to do it for him.