Getting 6 Yr Old up for School!

Updated on December 09, 2010
M.R. asks from North Olmsted, OH
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Hey Ladies :) we recently moved and before my son was in full time kindergarten, but it started at 9am. So him and my other two kids were up about 7:30 so he was able to eat a good brkfst (if my son is up for bout an hour he eats really well other than that he's not, i guess, hungry enough or awake enough to eat alot) and I did not have to leave till 8:45 to get him to school. So an hour and fifteen minutes. When we moved I kept him in the school for about a month b/c where i moved to there was no full time public kindergarten only 2 1/2 hour part-time afternoon.. Which my son needs the full time to keep him stimulated and plus he was already in a full-time setting I didnt want to cut the hours as though he was back in pre-k like last year. So anyhow my husband and i opted for catholic school (which the prices are ok and full-time!) But he starts at 8am! and since the levy passed he gets bused now. So he has to be outside by 7:10. Now I've been getting him up at 6:45 so he has time to get dressed and eat something, but he's been in this school for almost a month now and morning don't seem to be running any smoother. He was going to bed at 8-8:30 but i got I started to put him to bed bout 7:30ish. and now i'm put him down at 7:00 last nite. i dont want to have to put him to bed at 6:30 but it seems like he needs more sleep. I dont know what to do. The other kids are adjusting ok and usually have no prob getting up in the morning. But do you think 6:30 is too early?? This morning he didnt even get to eat brkfst b/c he didnt want a cereal bar and he just kept crying.. I dont know what to do or just to wake him up earlier, but it seems like he's having a hard enough time just getting up early now! any suggestions?? thanks :)*** EDIT.. clothes are laid out, and lunch boxes i made (he helps the nite before) i dont want an acutal alarm going off because he bunks w/ his baby brother and if he would keep sleeping thats fine with me :) But maybe just a clock he can look at would be a good idea! Believe me this boy has his independence. since I'm home by myself all week (hubby is a truck driver) the more my kids can do for themselves the easier for me :) So I totally agree and I understand the whole independence thing :)

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M.A.

answers from Chicago on

I agree that he probably needs more time to wake up in the morning and also suggest a 6:00 or so wake up time. He's probably just slow at waking up ( I can relate!). 7 to 6 should be enough sleep for him. That's what time my kids (4 and 2) go to bed and wake up. This would also give him time to get hungry if he gets ready first and eats last.
He might need naps on the weekend or a couple times a week too, if you can get him to do that. I know that school wears my daughter out and she occasionally needs a nap.

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M.C.

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LOL! I just read this and was like "did I say I have a boy?" I will also check back on yours to see what they say to you as well! She can't go to bed any earlier than 7 really...can she? :)

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D.P.

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Well, a few thoughts. When my son started first grade it was a shocker for him b/c he previously was in p.m. Kindergarten--not my choice--just the zone in which we live. He like to lounge around in the morning, play, wake up then eat. Then 1st grade started and he has to be at the bus stop at 8:15--culture shock! A few things helped. In the beginning--extra time. Missing breakfast completely a few times had an impact b/c he then realized he would get nothing til lunch period. Also--you could try pre-waking if it wouldn't interfere w/the baby. Just go in and turn on a small lamp about 15 mins before you wake him. It does help.
That is really early to be at a bus stop! 7:10? Can you drop him off later?
If he is still really tired in the a.m., then put him to bed as early as needed. I know a single mom (teacher) with an almost 5 yo and there are nights he is in bed at 6:30--b/c they are UP at 6:00 a.m!

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I have a first grader and he gets up at 6:50am and we leave the house at 7:20am. He has to get up, get dressed, eat and brush his teeth. If he takes too long getting dressed and up I just send breakfast with him and let him it at at school. Can you maybe just get your son to eat breakfast at school instead? We put my son to bed at 8pm every night and he falls asleep right away.

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M.M.

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I have a sleepy girl. She was one of the kindergartners who would still fall asleep at naptime after lunch. In Kinder her bedtime was 7:00 and she slept until 7:00am. She is now a junior and still goes to bed at about 9ish.

Do calm things at night. Now is not the time for lots of after school activites. In the morning make him a smoothie, that tends to brighten anybodies day. If you can swing it. I used to just keep the blender on the counter and use frozen fruit Sometimes it just got a hot rinse before the next drink was made.

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If you are thinking he is needing more sleep then put him down by 7 make sure he has ate dinner bathed bedtime routine it's just earlier for him.I think he is going through a growth spurt my kids tend to sleep more when they go through these.Time he gets up is fine he has to be ready for the bus.He is still adjusting it takes time, talk to him about his day all kids are different he will bounce back.I hae used an alarm clock for my son since kindergarten I don't have to wake him he is an early riser sometimes i'll come down stairs to wake him but he is already dressed teeth brushed drank his juice ate his yogurt watching cartoons really i'm impressed how independent he is & has been all his 7 yrs of life.Funny you say that the more kids they do themselves is easier on you I feel the same way with love & guidance of course

L.C.

answers from Washington DC on

Get that boy out of bed at 6:10. He needs time in the morning.
Put him to bed at 7:00. That's plenty of time for sleep.
He will have to adjust. You might find that he moves better in the morning with a little more time...
Give him a clock. Tell him that the clock says you need to get up at 6:10.
Set it and let him get himself up. Set his clothes out the night before. He is a big boy. He can do it. Give him some independence.
My children had clocks early. They always set them and got themselves up.
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E.W.

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It sounds like your son has had to adjust to a lot of changes. I am sure this is the root of everything. Personally 6:30 is way too early. 8 to 8:30 would be more reasonable. If you were to drive him to school would he be able to sleep a little longer and eat breakfast? I ended up driving my son to school versus the bus. This enabled him to get more sleep and really helped him out. Once he gets into the routine enough you should start to see improvement. And then down the road as he adjusts you can try the bus again. You want to see if you can car pool with someone else. My kids get picked up an hour before school starts. I would rather have them sleep more. It also helps there little bodies fight the germs they come in contact with at school and will keep them healthy.

J.S.

answers from Chicago on

Great suggestions so far! I would also recommend buying some light bulbs that simulate sunlight (more natural light) or get a light box. Get him up and put him under one. Nothing wakes us up more than the sun!

We're getting close to the shortest day of the year - afterwards, the days will get longer. I honestly can't blame him for not waking up right away - I don't want to get out of bed either when it's still dark out.

Good luck!

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