D.S.
Hi L.~
I have had my gallbaldder removed. It was done when I was 24 (11 years ago). It took the (very poor) doctors close to a year to diagnose the problem since I didn't fall into the typical category of gallstone sufferers.
By the time I had the surgery, my gallbladder was completely blocked and surgery was my only option. I had the laproscopic surgery....4 small incisions. If you were to see my stomach now, you can't even see the scars.
I felt a MILLION times better within 1 week of surgery (that let me know just how bad I had felt with the gallstones) The laproscopic is the best option if you can.
My gallstone pain did disappear after surgery. I did recover quite quickly. My stomach/bowels are a bit sensitive, but not tragically so. I do not have diarrhea all the time, though seriously high-fat meals make my stomach a bit upset. There is, in fact, a medicine specifically to help people who have had their gallbladders removed if the bile in their system effects their bowels. My Doctor had me try it recently...it prevented any diarrhea at all.
I wish I had an alternative suggestion. I do recommend a second opinion (and even a third) if you are uncomfortable with the second dr. as well. I can tell you that it was impossible to eat..and excruciating when my gallbladder was blocked.
The surgery was relatively easy in comparison. I'm happy I did it. I wish you the best of luck! Happy to answer anything else I can for you!