I have twins and though I wanted to do cloth diapers, my area didn't have a service and I was frankly overwhelmed. I used disposable diapers for the first year. Yes they were convienient, but I was always worried about the landfill thing. I switched at one year and I LOVE my cloth diapers as does my somewhat hard to convince husband. A big selling point to him was the cost as well as the hope that they would help us diaper train earlier.
If I had it to do again, I would have still used disposables until around 3 months. After that, babies go to the bathroom alot less often and you have more time to do laundry.
I understand that your husband is worried about residual bacteria, but frankly after a couple of months he will be so used to baby poop that nothing will phase him. Also I have a background in microbiology and I can tell you that it is very very unlikely that any bacteria would remain in the machine. Even if it did, it can't live on your skin and is even more likely to get into a mucous membrane. This is not dangerous at all. You could try convincing him that you will rinse the washer with tea tree oil, which will disinfect it (you'll have to do this without clothes in the washer so it will waste some water).
I have a friend who uses G-diapers, but after a couple of months she just started using pre-folds in the holders instead of the disposable pads.
One thing about diaper services is that even though you don't have to do the laundry, you are typically using prefolds and covers - this was way too intimidating for me and my husband, we used pocket diapers instead.
As for using them on the go, initially I didn't think that we would wear cloth diapers when we went out, but I do use them for short trips with a wet bag(not more than one or two changes). I just unzip the wet bag(which also prevents smell) and dump the whole thing in the washer.
We use and LOVE bumGenius v.3 One Size diapers. I decided on them after doing a trial program with www.jilliansdrawers.com. It was awesome, just a few dollars and I got to try several different types of diapers for 21 days. They velcro on just like disposable diapers, fit kids from 9-35 lbs, and are super easy to use and take care of. Not having to buy more sizes makes them more economical than they originally seem.
I hope all of these things help, good luck finding the right thing for your family.
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