Hi M.,
I have 2 answers for you...LOL.
First answer: If she has no issues with food (such as someone trying to force her to eat when she's refusing or witholding food as punishment---which I'm sure you're doing neither of those), then she will most likely eat the right amount for her needs. Is she at a good weight? That will tell you if she's getting enough.
Second answer: I'm a child care provide and have nutritional guidelines that are set by the food reimbursement program. This is what I am required to offer to infants between the ages of 8 and 12 months. They may eat more or less...it just depends on the child and what kind of day he/she is having.
Breakfast:
6-8 ounces breast milk or formula,
2-4 T infant cereal,
1-4 T fruit and/or vegetable.
Lunch and Dinner:
6-8 ounces breast milk or formula,
2-4 T infant cereal and/or 1-4 T meat, fish, poultry, egg yolk, or cooked dry beans or peas, or 1/2 to 2 ounces cheese, or 1-4 ounces cottage cheese or cheese spread,
1-4 T fruit and/or vegetable
Snacks:
2-4 ounces breast milk or formula or fruit juice
0-1/2 slice bread or 0-2 crackers
Hope this helps. I can also let you know the guidelines for older children as well.
K.
www.joyfulconnections.net
P.S. I enjoyed the site mentioned by Annette.