R.M.
I am sorry for your loss first and for most. Please take your husbands help when you feel you need him, let him help you. He said he wanted to, don't hide it from him, let him comfort you. I do pray you would have faith regarding dealing with Christmas Season and all you have gone through. Let you daughter enjoy the season, she doesn't understand your pain, but try to turn your pain into strength for her and possible other child to be.
May God comfort you with His Blessings. R.