Hey C.,
you have already had some responses, but I can't help but offer my advice. I have a 9 yr old, I gained 50 pounds with her and was not in good shape before or after. I also have a nearly 20month old, who I gained about 40 pounds, but I was a personal trainer before I got pregnant and I still am.
After my son was born 2 summers ago, my 10year high school reunion was scheduled for a short 4 months later! I had to get into shape. With that motivation, along with walking the walk of the talk I gave to my clients as a personal trainer I was very motivated to lose the weight. And that is your number 1 thing, you must find what motivates. Write down your goals, give reasons WHY you have those goals. And create weekly goals along the way, for the times when that big goal becomes overwhelming. Also write down what sets you back (eating your kids left overs, snacking when you're not hungry or stressed out, snacks that are unhealthy, dessert after dinner, etc.) Next to those set backs, write down alternatives that you can do in place of the set backs. Instead of an unhealthy snack, I will eat some fruit. Instead of snacking when I'm not hungry, I will take a walk, Instead of eating the kids left overs I WILL throw them away, or save them for later.
2. losing weight is all about calories in vs. calories out. Join an online website like www.sparkpeople.com (sparkpeople.com/vickiluu is my little site) or thedailyplate.com or calorieking.com (you have to pay for this one, but they have a very large database.) Anyway, the purpose of these sites is to count your calories. In order to lose 1 lbs/week you have to have a 500 calories deficit each day. In order to lose 2 lb/s week, you need a 1000 calories/day deficit.
3. Take in nutritious food. Having a candy bar may add 350 calories to your daily calories, but all it does is enter your body and since most of it is fat, the body stores it as...fat! The few nutrients the bar MAY contain, your body will use, but there's not nearly enough to give your body what it needs. So make a conscious effort to eat foods that are nutritious and has protein, healthy carbs, like fiber (rather than sugar), and low in fat.
4. Exercise will help in that ###-###-#### calories/day deficit, but the cardio work will help your heart muscles to circulate your blood and give you more energy all around. The weight training will help your bone density, in our fight against osteoporosis, and give you tone and definition when you do lose the weight.
5. Find a friend or someone who will encourage you and keep you accountable when you don't feel like following your goals. Always go back to your goals, too, to help remind you WHY you are on the journey you are on.
I hope this helps.
V. Luu
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