My BFF had the Essure procedure done last year and loved the whole experience. She had it done in the office and went out to eat at a very nice Sushi restaurant afterwards. She has some mild cramps the next day but nothing like her normal periods. She was back up doing the same normal things the next day too.
She went back in the recommended time frame and the doc ran the dye through and it was totally blocked off. It was a mild procedure that didn't cause her any discomfort and gives her the assurance she will nevr get pregnant again.
As for her hubby getting cut, she said why bother and waste that money. So he didn't get one. It is totally un-needed at that point.