Our daughter goes to college over 2000 miles away. We miss her every day she is there.. The only thing that makes it bearable is that she LOVES it!
What has helped us is the internet, skype and cell phones. Being able to touch base with her. Also when people ask about her, we love giving updates.
I also belong to a moms group that tries to meet once a month during the school year. We do a pot luck with a little wine and all catch up on each others child in college. This is a group of moms that our children all graduated the same year from High School, but not all from the same school and our kids were not all friends with each other. Some of the moms have older and younger kids to so they have lots of different experiences. We are a group of about 18 moms now, but the number that attend each month changes...
Each time we get together we prepare care packages for our children. We also take a small item to place in each childs care package. So if 10 of us will be there we take 10 of the same item.. Post it notes, 100 calorie snacks, gum, hot chocolate packets, highlighters, Texas post cards.. During holiday months sometimes seasonal items will be included.. Whatever.. Our kids each end up with an interesting and sometimes very strange assortment of stuff..
Maybe you could suggest this to your friend and promise to help her organize it each month? Also invite her over for dinner, call her when you are going to the movies, ask her to join you for trips to Target, the garden center... Make some margaritas and just visit every once in a while..
You are a good friend and Yes, she is going to need the distraction..