BTW any of you with young children that don't want to work with your husband or that have been advised to NOT work with your husband to prevent divorce, READ THIS QUESTION AND THE PROBLEMS THIS POOR LADY IS DEALING WITH. These are in part directly related to the divorce and the tearing apart of a family.
Now my reply:
BORING! Life can be so BORING! Especially when all our whims are catered to. Go Ina G. You've got it right! So did Tracy K.
When my children were little and starting puberty, everything was "So UNFAIR ! ! ! Then things became so BORING ! ! ! ! when they didn't like my reaction to "unfair". They they didn't like the things I had for them to do because they were so bored either. It also happened when they were teasing because they couldn't find anything else to do.
What did I do? Well, you've heard that "idle hands are the devil's workshop". My kids pulled weeds, washed the dishes, cleaned their room, read a book and did a book report, planted a garden, cleared brush, washed windows, cleaned out my BBQ grill, cleaned the bathroom, especially the toilet and tub rubbed their mom's feet and mine too if they were still bored after rubbing their mom's feet, cook dinner, and I could go on, but you get the point. Oh, I forgot mention, wash and wax the car. ;~))
I never tolerated back talk or profanity in my home. If my kids used profanity, I would burn the garbage out of their mouthes. They had to hold one teaspoon of tobasco sauce in their mouthes for 60 seconds, and then they could do what they wanted with it. Swallow it or spit it out. Their choice. I still don't have any kids that use profanity. And my kids must have told their spouces because they don't use profanity in our house either.
I wish you luck in dealing with this bad behavior. You have my prayers and best wishes.