M.B.
I guess when you come close to loosing a baby like i did with my son it didn't matter what the next one was. And besides I don't think there is anything you can do to get get the sex you want anyways. So why even get worked up over it. I have a friend who did all the stuff to have a girl and ended up with twin boys! I think people need to look past not getting the baby they want and be happy it's healthy