M.S.
Try Papa's Pizza. They have a lot of tables, a small salad bar and a fairly large play area, and no dancing anythings. I would go to www.papaspizza.net to find the best location for them.
b.t.w, I don't work for them, but I did take my daughter there for her second birthday and we all had a blast. It can easily handle a large party, in fact, there were two large parties at the same time and all of the kids seemed to have lots of fun.
Best of luck,
M. Alice Skaggs