I guess I need a lawyer referral in Nevada who is not way to expensive. The county in charge of the case is Elko, but everyone there is SO expensive and they do not have a legal aid attorney in Family Law! Please help!
Also I really don't know if I should let my ex see his son with out supervision until I have a court order saying I have physical custody of my son. Any thoughts?
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Don't worry, things will cool down in time. It's probably a good thing you didn't get married, huh? There is a lot to be grateful for.
Take care, stay safe ~D
have you tried legal aid in Oregon they might be able to help you out with some advice at least but i can tell you in most cases whoever files first wins most of the time ...best of luck to you and your son
http://www.ojd.state.or.us/osca/cpsd/courtimprovement/fam...
I live in Oregon and I know that unmarried parents have almost the same custody rights as married parents. They are unlikely to give him full custody as the courts like to give joint when possible. Check the above website for the "Unmarried Parents Packet." It gives advice and info on where to turn. In Oregon atleast. I dont' know about Nevada. Sounds like you won't have much trouble proving who is a better, safer parent. Good luck.
I live in Oregon and so I can't recommend a lawyer. I can suggest that you talk to someone at juvenile court. They work with lawyers everyday and some of them will be in family law.
Another idea is to call one of those attorney's. Tell them that you'd like to hire them but you don't have enough money. Ask for a referral to one who considerably charges less.
I agree that you shouldn't let your ex have unsupervised visits until you have an attorney. He can advise you best. I'm guessing he'll immediately go to court for an interim order but I don't know for sure. Before you get a lawyer I would advise that all visits be supervised. If possible by an emotionally strong person and if possible a "disinterested" person. Someone who doesn't feel a need to take sides. By emotionally strong, I mean someone who strongly believes that you should have custody and who won't succomb to your ex's emotions. That means that they are able to return your son to you while maintaining a non-threatening attitude with your ex. No fighting.
I wish you the best, H.. This is a long difficult road that you are traveling but it will end eventually. Find someone that you can vent and/or talk with to help you keep your sanity.
Just sit tight and find a good lawyer. Do some research and hopefully you'll be able to find one to work with you. Best of luck to you and your son.
Ok my first question for you is, it the child with you in Oregon? If so you can call the Lawyer Referral service ###-###-####. They could help you with finding a Lawyer the will do free or reduced fee.
You may still have fees for Nevada, but you lawyer will be able to help with getting someone cheap.
It sounds as if it is not safe for you and your son to be around your son. (I would let your lawyer know this) Please follow your feelings and stay safe. Sound like he is trying to get out of paying for support by filing for custody. I would seek any and all help from the state. I am fighting for support for my son (his father lives out of state) If you have any questions or need support please contact me. Having a support group helps a hole lot.
good luck
