Clothing Styles/trends for Girls

Updated on June 09, 2012
T.S. asks from Orinda, CA
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I took my 13 year old daughter shopping the other day for new clothes. She's small for her age so she still wears a size 10/12.
Anyhoo, we were both SO surprised at all the bling (glitter, rhinestones, etc.) that's on clothing in this age/size group, 7 to 16. She hasn't liked these styles since she was probably 5 or 6, as a matter of fact, none of the girls around here wear these styles much past that age. And yet the stores are full of this stuff! I realize a lot of it depends on your particular community, ours tends to be more conservative/preppy, but she and I decided to have some fun walking around the mall observing girls and what they were wearing (the mall is not in our community, but a larger, more diverse urban area.) We really didn't see any girls wearing these fashions, other than really little ones.
So I guess my question is, who buys this stuff? I wonder if it's marketed more to parents and grandparents who may find it cute but are really clueless about what girls actually like? Obviously it sells otherwise it wouldn't be there!
This is just a silly question for a Friday, as someone who likes fashion/trends I'm just really curious.
Oh, and if you're wondering what stores I'm talking about we went to Macy's, JC Penney, Children's Place, Sears and Justice. We got a few things at Penneys but had to go to Old Navy, Gap and Target for the rest.
Have a great weekend everyone :)

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D.N.

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I know exactly what you mean. My 4 year old does not like all the glitter. And it is everywhere! Seriously, why? She likes butterflies but they ALL have some kind of glitter on them. She is okay with a little bit but nothing has a little bit it seems. And I think JCpenney is the worst of the bunch for some reason. I know they don;t make the clothes but...
My older girls are in junior sizes as they are tall. It is like girls are supposed to go from cute little outfits straight to grown up with nothing in between. Teens do not need to show cleavage thank you very much.

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R.V.

answers from San Francisco on

I ask my self the same question every time we shop. I truly don't understand who is buying this stuff. And shoes are the worst if you have a teen daughter. Everything has a 5 inch heel or is a flip -flop. It's very hard to find a nice low heel dress shoe for a teen.

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X.O.

answers from Chicago on

The little girls in my neighborhood are all bedazzled, all the time, even if they are just running around at the park. Kinda makes me breathe a sigh of relief as I hustle after my 3 boys :)

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J.A.

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I don't know about the bling, lol. But something that really bothers me is that we went to get my daughter a pair of sandals she is 7 and has big feet (3's) for her age, but I was SHOCKED at how many flimsy strapped sandals have heels! I mean really these are girl sizes!

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L.R.

answers from Washington DC on

I think the gaudy Jusitice-style junk is bought during a very short window when girls are maybe in second to fourth grades and then they're done with the glitter-crusted stuff. That was our experience in school. My daughter was about the only one in her class in fourth grade who didn't wear tons of t-shirts from Justice that were covered in peace signs and slogans and rhinestones. The peace signs still abound and some graphic tees without all the bling, but most girls by now (end of fifth) are wearing plainer t-shirts and jeans a lot. Unfortunately now it's Abercrombie tees -- and I'm not going anywhere near Abercrombie any time soon.

That leaves my daughter still different from them -- she hates jeans or khakis and prefers very soft yoga-style trousers in bright solid colors with matching tops. Fortunately you can get these at Target and sometimes Children's Place, and Target has good, basic solid shirts and nicer polo-style (collared) shirts. It's hard, though, if a girl doesn't want to wear graphic tees with either shorts or jeans every single day -- that is most of what they sell elsewhere.

She's 11 and soon will outgrow Target's kids' section, and I don't know what we'll do then. I see the middle schoolers around here wearing cutoffs, flip-flops and tees to school every day -- not going to happen here.

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R.K.

answers from Appleton on

I agree and I worked for Penney's. Besides being over the top all that glitter washes off and gets all over the rest of the stuff in the load. My son was not thrilled to find glitter all over his jeans that came off a pair of my pjs. And who needs glitter on their pjs?
I also do not like that so many of the shorts and pants for little girls have something emblazened on the butt of the clothes. I do not want strangers staring at my butt or my kids - grandkids butts.

Best thing to do is contact customer service online and tell them how you feel. Telling the indivual store managers does no good. They are not allowed to make any decisions about what goes into their stores. Those decisions are made at the corporate level.

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J.B.

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i love the harajuku mini line at target. i have a 5 year old and i put her in that and dont do a lot of glitterd things. there are times that she will want a hello kitty shirt with it or something like that.

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