M.A.
A website that I really recommend for info is www.diaperpin.com also this
http://www.thenaturalmotheringshop.com/Cloth%20Diapering....
and this
http://www.pinstripesandpolkadots.com/basics.htm
and this
http://www.greenmountaindiapers.com/newmom.htm
Anyway, I have been using cloth diapers for 2 years now. Will you be working? that may have an effect on how much extra work washing diapers is for you. For cost, washing them yourself is the way to go vs a service. Also, you don't have to use phosphate detergents to wash them, as someone else mentioned. Allen's naturally and Charlie's Soap and Country Save are all recommended for cloth diapers.
I admit that for the first month I used disposables because my baby was really small (5.5 lbs) and being a new mom takes some getting used to.
I find cloth to be more reliable than disp. as far as leaks go. I really like what I am doing for the environment. And cloth diapers are so cute!
I keep my diapers in 2 bags - one from www.happytushies.com and one from www.snap-ez.com. No water. I wash every other day because 1) they get stinky and 2) you have less issues with bacteria, etc.
I have used prefolds, pocket diapers and fitted diapers.
Where do you live? I live in Ft. Myers. If you are interested in seeing some cloth in person you can email me at ____@____.com