J.T.
My ped told me to soak the q-tip in rubbing alcohol. It dries up the wax and helps loosen up the harder wax. I soak the first end in alcohol then gently put it in the ear rubbing all sides. The q-tip is pretty soaked. Not really dripping with alcohol, but definately leaving a good coating in her ear. Then I take the other end (dry end) and wipe up the alcohol I just put in. Her ears have stayed pretty clear since then and we haven't had to "flush them out" at the doctor's office since! Hope that helps! :)