I am a mom of adult children; my kids started school in a small private Lutheran school way back in 1985; my first oldest, daughter, went there for Kindergarten through 2nd grade, my youngest daughter, went there for Kindergarten and my son never went there; we then decided to homeschool (during the dark ages when nobody was doing it!!) and that was the best decision for us at the time. I would not trade those years for anything, esp now that they are adults! We had such fun learning and making memories together. Very fond times. We homeschooled them through eighth grade. My daughters then transitioned for grades 9-12 to an all girls Catholic school and both got full rides to college. My son went to a small Christian school for 8th grade because we felt he needed a year to get used to the rigors of "traditional school" before entering an all boys Catholic school - he too did very well and was successful. They are now 27, 26 and 22 years old. So you can see, we did a mix of education.
I also now have many friends with kids in the public schools and they have had very good experiences. They are not all the devils den as some people make them out to be. I do not believer that God desires for us to make "fear based" decisions.
I encourage you to remain in prayer and start walking in a direction that you think God is leading you. I call it "getting out of the boat"....if you keep your eyes on Jesus, He will be faithful to lead you in the direction you are going, or He will lead you down an alternative path that He desires you to be on.
There are no wrong decisions when He leads:) God bless you.