K.D.
I do understand, its really hard to balance parenting and work. We have used in home care (nanny) out of home care (a friend) and two daycares. Sometimes accidents are accidents, othertimes they can and should be prevented. My son burnedhimself with a curling iron on his hands and feet when he was with a regular babysitter and she left him alone. I have also had help (sister-in-law) that went through all our financial statments (personal and corporate). Weve also delt with daycares that ignored food intolorances then lied about it.
Finally we have found something that works. I dont know where you are located or how old your son is but I would reccomend Trinity Lutheran Childrens Center. It is a fully accreited shcool and day care, where the staff cares about the children and their development at all levels. It is on whashington ave. close to downtown houston.
I hope this helps a little.