Hi, K.. First of all, I want to congratulate you on raising two strong, independent, responsible girls! It's refreshing to hear how successful they are, when so many kids are going astray and not taking care of themselves or each other. KUDOS!
Well, one thing that they tell us folks who have been out of the job market for a while is to try to volunteer somewhere in the area that we're trying to find a job. For instance, I had worked as a secretary and customer service person for many years before I quit working due to a chronic illness, and I was advised to volunteer in a non-profit office and help staff the donation phone bank for organizations like PBS (public television). Sometimes, the best volunteers get scooped up for real jobs, and sometimes, volunteering opens doors for applying for a real job at that institution.
I ended up not having to volunteer to get a job after being out of the job market for more than 5 years, but that was my next strategy before I finally landed a customer service job. In your case, it would at least get you out of the house and into the sunshine ( : even if it didn't give you a foot in the door for a job.
What kind of job are you looking for? That can help you find what kind of organization you might want to volunteer for. You can also find volunteering opportunities at churches or synagogues. Some daycare centers use volunteers, too. Again, not knowing what kind of job you want, I don't know what else to suggest, but I do hope you find something that is challenging and rewarding.
Oh! something just occurred to me. Colleges and universities need people to volunteer to assist disabled students in classrooms. When I was going to college, I used to work part-time as a notetaker, reader, and test proctor for disabled student services. Nowadays, with cutbacks in funding, they are eliminating these services as paid positions and giving students service learning credit for helping out instead. I don't know if people who aren't students can volunteer to do this; I know that there is a great need at the college where I work for such volunteers. If this interests you, you might want to call a nearby college or university and ask for the Access office or disabled student services and see if they take volunteers from outside the student body.
Peace,
Syl