T.B.
You should look in your area for a car seat check station. Your 4 year old probably doesn't even need the 5 point harness. My daughter has been in the seatbelt only since she is about 3-1/2. She is 4-1/2 now and only has a booster seat. I was nervous when the trooper first told us we didn't need the 5 point harness but depending ont he size of the child sometimes it can do more harm than good. We had them checked at the Monmouth rest area on the GSP. They also have a place in Brick where they check seats and sometimes in the Wal-Mart parking lots. Anyway - good luck to you