Hi L.,
I just had a baby at the end of May who was breech. I tried *everything* I could to turn him (we knew he was breech from 30 weeks onwards) and nothing worked. Here's what I tried:
Chiropractic (I went to Estelle Nella at Bucktown Chiropractic. She was referred to me by my midwife and was wonderful, though the Webster Technique didn't work for me, who knows why?)
Swimming
Knee-chest position several times a day
Bag of frozen peas on my baby's head (cold!)
Talking to the baby
Music (walkman earphones near my pubic bones)
Flashlight
Laying inverted (on a tilted ironing board) several hours a day
Massage
Nothing worked for me and we tried a version at 37 weeks, which was also unsuccessful, though not nearly as unpleasent as I thought. I ended up having a C-section for this delivery, which was immensely disappointing to me since I had planned on a natural childbirth.
Has your baby moved at all or does it seem "stuck" in the same position? I guess a lot of babies flip around and around and eventually settle into a comfortable position. My baby was stuck in the exact same position for at least 10 weeks - longer I think - and so I was really not very optimistic that anything would work. One day after my chiropractic my baby moved from head up facing left to facing right, but he flipped back around to facing left the next day. That was the extent of the motion I got :(
This was my first baby and I was told that had I already delivered a baby vaginally, I would be able to find someone who might deliver the baby breech. But since I had an "untested pelvis" it was considered too risky. I am planning to VBAC for my second.
I would recommend doing everything you can to turn you baby, of course. See the website www.spinningbabies.com for some more advice (might be .org - I cant remember).
But if it doesn't turn there's probably a darn good reason for it. In that case, since you've already got one baby you should be able to find someone who will deliver your baby vaginally. But it may take some looking. I would especially look for some of the older docs who do high-risk pregnancies - delivering breech babies seems to be somewhat of a lost art and a lot of the younger folks have never learned the techniques.
My mom, a midwife, says it's a bit like delivering an ice cream cone pointy-end first. The baby's head doesn't have a chance to mold so there is a higher chance of it getting stuck in the birth canal. That said, the statistics that I saw indicate that there is only a slightly higher risk of vaginally-delievered breech babies having problems later in life. The one doc I know who does them (unfortunately he lives in NH!) says you almost always need foreceps to deliver breech babies.
If your baby remains breech I personally would not risk a home birth. I would push as hard as I could for a natural vaginal hospital delivery, but since there is a higher chance of something going wrong and a large possibility that instruments (foreceps) may be necessary, I'd go the hospital route.
Everyone will tell you this a hundred times, but at the end of the day having a healthy baby is the most important thing - much more important than your birth experience. That said, if you can have a healthy baby *and* a good experience, all the better.
Despite the fact that I was tremendously disappointed that I ended up not even being able to "try" labor, my midwife was great, I healed quickly, and my baby is beautiful. That said, I'd never repeat the experience if given a choice!
Good luck with your baby-turning! At 34 weeks breech, about 80-90% of babies will spontaneously turn even if you do nothing, so chances are you'll be able to do the home birth after all. Still, a little help doesn't hurt.
-K.
PS; If you end up with a c-section, I highly recommend scheduling it rather than going into labor first (despite the fact that labor is good for babies). You will be more well rested. Your husband will be able to come in with you. Everything will be more relaxed. You will be able to prepare your baby by telling him that he is going to come out. Your recovery will be much faster, believe me.