M.M.
I had a full tummy tuck with muscle repair last November.
Best. Decision. Ever.
I would suggest looking for a surgeon that uses progressive tension sutures, instead of the old technique of drains for 10+ days post surgery. I had virtually no swelling - ever. I never experienced the "swell hell" that you'll hear about from others, and my surgeon (who's been a PS for 30+ years) would tell you that the progressive technique is why.
I can tell you that my recovery was 3 days of discomfort, and then I felt normal again. I was unable (didn't) lift anything over 10lbs for 6 weeks. That was hard, since I felt normal, but I considered it "protecting my investment". :)
We used Care Credit to "finance" the surgery, and all total, our bill was $10K with tummy tuck, and some lipo on my upper arms.
Not sure if you've had a C-section, but if so, the recovery is very, very similar.
Feel free to PM me if you have questions.
I would do it all over again in a heart beat!