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1. A neighbor hires a Story Teller to come to her house. She brings a back-drop, puppets, costumes and tells a story. Princess Belle-Beauty and the Beast is what she has done here. She also encourages the girls to dress up, participate and play act, face paint make-up. Maybe a bit much for the 3 year old, but she does different stories. Unfortunately I don't have her name. There are story tellers in the book.
2. Rent one of those blow up jump things. Especially for a small party, they can all use it at the same time. You do need to supervise the little ones. But they love it and it expends some energy.
3. Have a tea party at home. Each should bring their own favorite friend so there's less arguing over who gets which. Let them use white grape juice and actually pour their own tea. It will get a bit messy. Cute cracker treats or cup cakes.
4. Get a cd of common sing-a-longs and you or Dad be the clown. Get some face paints or kids makeup, etc and dress them up like clowns or big girls. Have a parade when they're in costume. They'll just be happy to play the rest of the time.
- Just some ideas. I've seen all of these be huge successes. Remember, it doesn't take much to impress a 3 year old, so just do what yours seems to have the most fun with, she's the star. Don't forget party hats.