C.H.
What we did for my daughter was have a pool party/luau. We had easy finger foods, because it was mostly 1-3 year olds in attendance. We had a pinata, we let her have the first crack, and since she didn't get it, everyone else had a turn. It was such a hit, every single party ever since then we've had a pinata. We also dressed her up in a little grass skirt and bikini, it was a hoot! Meatballs in a crock pot are always a hit - frozen meatballs, 1 jar of grape jelly and 1 jar chili sauce (any kind) and let it cook all day. Each of the other moms brought something. We always do that -- good luck!