A.M.
You have no legal rights to the child. I've seen in some cases where the judge will kick the step family out of the court room because they don't have any legal rights. You may be able to be somewhat of a character witness, but of course you are going to be considered biased. Of course you will support your husband and paint a great picture of him. I agree with Emm M also that it does take a lot to change a custody arrangement. Unless the child is in danger or the current arrangement is not working for her, then a judge is not going to change things. In summary though you pretty much have the same legal rights as a babysitter....none. Not trying to sound harsh, but that is how it is.