D.R.
the best behavior chart is one that is specific to your daughter and your home life. make your own, and start simple. keep it simple and specific and start with short term goals and rewards. you can increase the amount of behaviors and the time as you go. start with the most specific and important behavior you want to work on, but try to start with one that you feel she will be able to achieve. you want to set her up for success, especially in the beginning. word it in a positive way, "I will....." instead of "i wont ......". modify for your child, but i want to try to give you an example... make a chart with boxes for each day. one goal. "i will keep my hands to myself" or "i will say please and thank you" or whatever. you should probably start with smaller increments, like from 9 to 11, 11 to 12, etc, or from wake up to leave for school, home from school to dinner, during dinner, dinner to sleep, or whatever works in your home. let her earn what you think will really mean something to her after only a few completed boxes. like i said, you will gradually increase the behaviors and the time needed to keep it and the amount of boxes needed to get a prize. think carefully about what rewards you use. they should be practical for you, positive, and able to be given immediately, at least in the beginning. it will probably make a greater impact if you can involve her in making the chart and helping to decide on what to work on and what the rewards are, with you having the final say, of course. make your chart nice and visible and happy. good luck.