My husband and I started researching/buying organic food last year after he was diagnosed with cancer at the age of 26. His sister gave me a book called "If It's Not Food, Don't Eat It" by Kelly Hayford, C.N.C. (she will even email you back if you have questions!) This book was a lifesaver and was really easy to read. It talks about everything you could ever want to know about organics, prices, even the politics behind it. (There is a chapter in there about cleansing diets, I didn't do that but the book is still so helpful even if you don't want to do that part). You could find it cheap on Amazon.com or at the library. I strongly recommend reading it. It will clear up any confusion and make it more manageable for you.
It was a bit overwhelming at first and my husband was opposed to it because he thought we were going to be eating really weird things. Once he realized that we ate mostly the same things, only home-made instead, he was fine with it. He now rarely eats anything that is unhealthy because he realizes how much better he feels now that we are healthy eaters. And, the best part is that we didn't even eat that badly before, but we still notice a difference in how we feel now that we have made some changes.
It takes a lot of time and attention at first. But, once you get to know the brands that you like, where to find them the cheapest, and some good recipes you like, it really becomes a way of life and is very little effort. Here are some tips to help:
-Read labels on everything. The more ingredients that you don't know what they are, the worse it probably is. Eventually, you won't have to read labels on things that you buy often that you know are safe. It gets easier.
-Be careful about vague labeling of ingredients. In non-certified organic items, like things that claim to be all-natural, can have vague labels such as "flavoring" or "natural flavor." This could be MSG, a harmful neurotoxin. They can get away with labeling things like that. Yesterday at the grocery store I saw some "all natural" laundry detergent in the regular detergent isle. Everything on the ingredient list seemed fine, but I called the phone # on the bottle to check to see if it contained Optical Brighteners, which are certain chemicals that make clothes look brighter, but stay on your skin and build up over time, becoming harmful. She checked and said that, yes, it does contain them even though it was not on the ingredient list, and it claimed it was all natural. Just be careful about paying more for items that claim things that are untrue.
-Whole, organic foods are best. The more processed it is, the worse it is for you. If you could find it in nature, it is a whole food. Ex, you could not find bread in nature, but you could find whole oats or whole grains. Whole grain bread is less processed than white bread.
-Get to know which stores have the cheapest items. It may mean going to a couple of different stores. Ex, I live in Columbia MO and I go to HyVee because they have the biggest organic selection, but Gerbes has cheaper organic peppers and strawberries.
-Pick up brochures, magazines, etc. that have coupons for organic items. Delicious Living Magazine is at most grocery stores in the organic section and they have a website. They have lots of coupons. Also, get to know what brands you like and then go to their websites to get coupons.
-You can pick and choose which items are most important for you to get organic. Here is a link to the organic dirty dozen. It shows which things you should always buy organic because they have the most chemical residue, and which have the least:
http://www.organic.org/articles/showarticle/article-214
-Learn how to make the most of what you buy. For ex, I buy Organic Smart Chicken. Costs more, but I buy the cheapest package I can find. Yes, you get less in the package, but I cut each chicken breast in halve for servings because the whole breast is way more than one serving anyway. So, you can then get 6 pieces of chicken out of one package instead of 3.
-Find recipes for things you can make at home instead of buying. I love making cheesy chicken pot pies and quiches that require pie shells. So, I found a good recipe for making pie shells instead and I know exactly what goes in it. LOTS cheaper too. You can substitute half of the flour with whole wheat flour to make things healthier in almost any recipe (even cookies). I love allrecipes.com because you can create an account and save recipes you like to your recipe box. Pretty much anything you can buy in a package, you can find a recipe to make a healthier version yourself--mac and cheese, beef stroganoff, granola bars, soup, etc.
-Take it one step at a time. Master one new concept before you integrate another. You can work on fruits and veggies first, then packaged items next, etc. There is so much info but don't let it overwhelm you. That's where that book can help too.
-Eventually, you may want to look at your bath/body products after you feel you have a good handle on the organic food. I never realized how much what you put on your skin is absorbed into your body and the things that are put into body products (formaldehyde, mineral oil-a petroleum by-product, sodium laurel/laureth sulfate-an irritant and used to clean garage floors, just to name a few). You could start with switching body lotion since it stays on your skin the longest. I strongly recommend Kiss My Face: Olive and Aloe lotion. I LOVE it! A bit more expensive though, but lasts a while. You can go to http://www.cosmeticsdatabase.com/index.php?nothanks=1 to see which products have harmful ingredients in them.
Here is an article about a school that is serving healthier food to the students and the changes in behavior they have seen. Very interesting. So many kids that are diagnosed with autism, ADD/ADHD, etc are actually just sensitive to additives, artificial coloring, artificial flavoring, etc. Even if you have kids without any type of behavioral diagnosis, think about how much healthier they will be growing up without the build up of pesticides and chemicals in their bodies.
http://www.organicconsumers.org/articles/article_14507.cfm
Here are two articles about getting kids to try new foods. I don't know how old your kids are, but getting them involved will be the biggest help in getting them to try new things. Let them go grocery shopping with you and they can help pick out the veggies, fruit, etc. Let them help prepare meals and choose one of the sides. They can wash the veggies, pour things, mix things, stir, etc. If they have a part in it, they are more likely to try it. Also, it can take up to 12 times of introducing something for a child to try something new, so even if they don't like something at first, make it again and keep trying.
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/3/T030800.asp "Feeding Toddlers: 17 Tips for Pleasing the Picky Eater" It has good ideas for introducing new, healthy foods to toddlers.
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http://www.askdrsears.com/html/4/T040200.asp "ABC's of Teaching Nutrition to Kids" I thought this one was especially good because it teaches parents how to make learning about healthy food fun for kids. It talks about how to educate kids so that they make healthy choices on their own later on and so they know which kinds of food are healthy and why. The only thing I didn't agree with was that he suggested rewards, but everything else was pretty good advice. The article talks about referring to "grow" foods for kids.
Sorry this is so long, but I hope it helps. Please don't hesitate to send me a message if you have any questions. I can give you my email address if you want it.
Best wishes, and great job for wanting to help your family become healthier.
C. G