UPDATE: Be aware that the links above regarding African babies dying over organic cotton actually argue BOTH sides of that assertion. Bobbi's right, we aren't always aware of the effects of our actions on others. It's always worth considering all available information so we can make informed decisions.
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Original reply:
I researched and started using organic foods, when available, in the early 70's, after reading Rachel Carson's book, Silent Spring. At that time DDT was one of the most used, and most harmful pesticides, and was causing the decline of bird populations.
Since then, chemical makers have introduced many thousands of new compounds, many of which have short histories, and so little study, and we simply don't know what their long-term effects will be on humans and other living things. Or how troublesome their synergystic (combined) effects will be. Lots of evidence shows that toxins are many times more dangerous when they are part of a cocktail.
And frightening things are already happening in wildlife populations, and in humans, including breast milk. Mercury, dioxins, various estrogen mimics, fire retardants, fertilizers, many pesticide residues, and much more is turning up in air, water supplies, and the food chain. From anti-bacterial hand soaps and use of antibiotics in livestock alone, bacteria strains are developing that are resistant to modern antibiotics. Purely dangerous – we could ultimately be breeding superbugs and new disease risk by our overuse of antibiotic agents.
I've since learned that organic farming practices also tend to reduce erosion, and wasted water, and OG farms are generally run by families rather than huge corporations, and employ more people and use less energy-guzzling mechanization.
Aside from eliminating many toxic effects, organically raised animals are generally much healthier, and have usually been raised humanely. They are not routinely treated with antibiotics or growth hormones, traces of which usually remain in an animal's meat, milk or eggs. Their systems are not overloaded with stress hormones. Or guilt that the animal led a miserable and anxious life, but I saved 63 cents per pound on my meat this week.
Not all food is available organic, and not all conventionally grown food is as risky, so on my very tight budget, I do sometimes choose from those foods: http://www.thedailygreen.com/healthy-eating/eat-safe/Dirt....
As far as cleaning products is concerned, over 20 years ago my body reached the limit of what it was able to cope with, and I've been ill ever since. Life is tolerable if I stick with baking soda and vinegar, borax and non-chlorine bleach (hydrogen peroxide), and just a simple, non-scented dish and laundry detergent. No fabric softeners, air fresheners, germ-killing wipes, high-powered cleaners.
Boy, have I saved a bundle. These simple products work, sometimes even better than the pricey ones. And my house smells great – not perfumed, just clean. And safe. And relaxing. People who visit often comment on how "calm and peaceful" they feel. Perhaps it's the lack of chemical soup in the air. I get nervous and overstimulated when I'm in a public place that smells like "chemical" clean, and I sometimes can't sleep for up to 4 days after a bad exposure. I worry about kids today who have trouble sleeping.
Simple, unscented soaps and shampoos are available. The fact that they often cost more is that the market is limited, and they still have all the costs of production, packaging, promotion and distribution. But they are safer, not as likely to harm you, your child, or your world.
As far as marketing scams are concerned, I would guess that 98 percent or more of the products you see in the cleaning aisle are at least partial scams. Always bigger, better, more magical, more life-changing (if only we knew that was in a negative, toxic direction), slicker packaging (which goes into landfills), sillier advertising, ever more designed to make us think if we don't use them, our homes and bodies can't possibly measure up.
Great question, E.. I hope you get lots of great answers. If you google "non-toxic home" or "organic foods," you'll get a bazillion links with more information than you'll be able to take in for months, but the study is worthwhile. Many of the most popular links (the ones that pop up first) have great tips and recipes for making your own cheap and healthy cleaning solutions.
By the way, I have yet to see it, but I hear the movie Food Inc. is eye-opening. And I agree with other moms; "natural" on the label can be misleading and meaningless. Look for "certified organic," and you'll know that a certifying agency has examined the product and approved it. Certification has become a mark of reliability over the last 20 years.