S.K.
We're having the same problem and I wrote in and recieved a ton of advice. My son is 16 mos. now but I remember him going through this around 10 mos. too. What we're finding that whats working for us is my husband is putting him down, instead of me, when he can. The past few nights, since we started this, he's slept great and until the next morning. I don't know if it's going to work forever but for now I'm relaxing a bit. I know how you feel and like everyone says it is a phase and we just need to hang on a little longer and ride it out.