WHEW ---well--- depending on your budget --
1. you could have the children make tutus and t-shirts to dance in; ( buy net fabric at a fabric store and let the children string elastic through pre-cut slots --- and then tie the skirts on --- after they get their skirt the '''tightness'' they want- they could glue on glitter or stars or -and the same messy nonsense with t-shirts for the boys;
2. you could put a large mirror ( if one is available) somewhere so the children can practice stretch moves in the mirror ( maybe even fashion a bar for them to stretch on;
3. You could decorate with inexpensive ballet posters;
4. you could show a taped version of The Nutcracker ballet;
5. You could have make up for the children to get ''ready to dance''' -;
And be SURE to take a picture of your little guests before the party is done- oh those should be some fantastic pictures.
NOTE you DONT need to do all these things- or all the fabulous ideas other Moms' suggest---3 or 4 at most will make your little girls eyes' shine ( remember - if you go all-out in a huge way now-- what will you do when she's 16?????)
Blessings,
J. - aka - Old Mom