L.H.
what was abdolutely amazing for my 2 showers was a diaper shower!! everyone was asked to bring diapers- all sizes- & of course i was registered & my close friends & family bought me presents as well. I didn't have to buy any diapers for my forst on until he was 6 months old & now my second son is 7 months & I still haven't had to buy any diapers!!! we called it 'Pamper Palooza' to be cute but you could make up whatever you like...like "It's Drizzling Diapers! Come to ___'s Baby Shower" or whatever...
gift receipts are very helpful, as she'll have to exchange diapers once she figures out what brand she likes and also as she runs out of one size and wants to exchange smaller diapers for larger ones. I didn't get gift receipts & wished I had- Publix is great about exchanges, but Target * Kmart are NOT. Walgreens is so-so if you talk to the Manager...
HTH
L.