I don't think it will be there the way we are told it will be/were told it would be. We shall see. My husband hits mandatory retirement in 11 years. That is right around the window forecasters say it will collapse, right? He is eligible to begin receiving benefits immediately upon retirement (such as they may be), due to the mandatory nature of his retirement, and it is in our retirement "planning", but neither of us realistically expect the receive what the paperwork reflects. It is by NO means our only retirement planning. We too are of the generation that have heard our entire life: "it will be gone before you ever retire."
Even after retirement, my husband has no intention of "retiring". He is considering being a teacher, among other things. A lot can change before then though...
As desirable as "retirement" seems, I really can't fathom ever being "retired". Ok... no waking up to an alarm clock and dragging off to drudgery, true. But there is still laundry, and meals to shop for and prepare, still house cleaning to be done, the other mundane issues of life. But, I also think about the admonishment from Paul regarding idleness. And consider how that plays out in the lives of Americans and their "ideal" of a "nice retirement" where they don't work and just travel and visit friends and family and have one big long vacation. I mean, isn't that what most Americans expect retirement to be? A final never ending vacation?
My parents are 70, and my mom still plants a small garden every year, they still tend their recently (in the last 3-5 years) planted mini-orchard, my dad volunteers at a hospital and in just the last year has been substitute teaching in the local school system. I wonder if most people plan on such a productive "retirement". I guess I expect my "retirement" to be along the same concept as my own parents. Do a few fun/nice things, mostly trips, not buying extravagant things or even going to extravagant places (they drove the Oregon Trail about 8 years ago, since my dad's family were some of the original pioneers on it; they drove up to Maine/New England, that sort of thing), and stay busy mentally and physically. I have no doubts my husband will continue to work in some capacity. He has also done volunteer work (Hospice) for the past probably 5 years. He has to stay busy... idleness doesn't "fit" him.
So, in sum, no, we are not counting on SS. One, because it will not exist in its current iteration; and Two, because I don't foresee a "typical" retirement for us. Until I became a SAHM, I had worked continuously (almost without exception) from the time I was in 11th grade. I "work" now managing my kids and their "scthuff" (dr appts, ortho appts, dental appts, piano, karate, middle school/high school, church), and the rest of the household. When the kids are grown and gone, I can't imagine sitting around here every day. I am sure I will find some sort of outside job. Probably I will revisit the "retirement" question then... but I don't expect to be receiving much from SS either way.