A.M.
Dear C.,
I would take your husbands view point into definite consideration! I can relate to your openess feeling perfectly happy with having one daughter. If you are seriously considering taking the step to have another child, I would not wait too much longer as the potential sibling will be near a six year age gap difference and this is if you conceive quickly. Make an appointment with your OB to discuss your age factor and any or all other concerns you may have and then make a mutal decision together after having all the facts in hand. I believe if you came from a family with lots of siblings you may not want to have lots of children sharing clothes, parents affection and so on....if you came from being an only child you might be more open to having lots of children surrounding you. There is no right or wrong answer, just what you are comfortable with. As for your original question definitely knowing that you want to have another child? I married my husband and took on raising his son from his first marriage who was six years old. I had a son that was 2 from my first marriage and shortly after we were married I did want to get pregnant. I thought having a baby together would bring our blended family closer. Four years later came son number 4 and yes I wanted that pregnancy too because I wanted a girl so I can understand if your husband wants another go at it for a possible boy. For my own situation, it has been a wild ride but I would not have had it any other way!