My first was an emergency c-section because he had flipped 2 weeks before his due date. It landed him breach and broke my water. I had taken holistic childbirth I so wanted to have him naturally but in the end, was thankful for the c-section because he was 9 lbs 3 oz. That was 2 weeks early.
My doctors at the time said I could do VBAC with my next but when the time came, they said that while it was still my choice, they were very much against it. They were worried the next baby would be bigger and sonograms are only so accurate (as I found with my first and 3rd, both of which were over 9 lbs but "should have been" only about 7 or 8). They also said that studies had shown there was a 10 time greater chance of uterine rupture than they had previously thought. That was not a chance I wanted to take regardless of the baby's size! I know people who have been through it and when they said they were glad they were into extreme sports or "it would have seemed worse than it was", I had no interest in taking that chance.
My second was my smallest at 7 lbs 12 oz but my third, who appeared "normal" in size, was 9 lbs 1.5 oz! The doctor was very surprised as there had been no indication he'd be that big; not with my weight gain, the sonos, my stomach measurements, nothing. So, all three of my children have been born via c-section and my 4th and last will be born the same way in August. In fact, I am going to take the opportunity to get my tubes tied while I'm in there. It will be nice not to have to worry about birth control. It is nice not worrying about how big the baby will be because this one is measuring in the 75th percentile but I am huge and measuring 3 to 4 weeks bigger externally than I should.
In some areas, the doctors will NOT do a VBAC because of the risks; sometimes medical, sometimes legal. I've had c-sections in 2 different states and in both, the earliest they would do them were 1 week before the due date.
Personally, I like having the c-sections. I know what to expect and my recoveries haven't been awful.
I wish you the best no matter what you decide.
L.