I think 5 is too young for sleepovers with friends. I've had many sleepovers at my house and do not allow them anymore. I have a 14 year old now who has always been a little social butterfly. My daughter was about 8 when I started allowing sleepovers with friends. She had one close friend and I knew both parents, so I allowed it, occasionally and it worked out great at that time. As she got older and made more friends, it got to be way too stressful for me. I understood how important it was for my daughter to have friends, thus sleepovers come with that, so I allowed them to make her happy. It can be costly too with food, activities, etc.--limit sleepovers. Now, I won't allow sleepovers anymore. I've done many sleepovers for past 6 years (more than most parents of her friends) and have witnessed many fights, loud noise and staying up late, crabby kids in the morning, and no one who wants to clean up their messes. Call me a negative nelly, but kids who stay up late, trash your house, and then leave with an attitude is not my cup of tea. Plus, fighting with my daughter to clean messes ended it all. Learn from my mistakes--be cautious and limit the sleepovers if you choose to have them. Instill rules also such as everyone has to quiet by midnight and the messes have to be cleaned up. I totally respect those parents who never allow sleepovers--and I understand why!:)
Just my 2 cents,
M.
Just my 2 cents,
M.