A.K.
my daughter is turning 8 this month.. and i know what you are feeling. i think at least for me, i am just trying to let her be herself within guidelines of course. she can cut her hair, she can wear shorts when she is warm... they can't be duplicates of us. :( my daughter use to love girlie stuff and dresses. and now she's cut her hair (after my wedding) wears pants all the time, and won't let me paint her nails anymore.. and she use to be such a girlie girl. but now she's her own person.. or at least trying to figure out what she wants. they will change so many times over the next few years.... just stay close to her, make sure she can talk to you openly... and it sounds like she is acting out to get your attention.. (as does my daughter). maybe set aside some special time with her... lunch.. just to have a one on one talk with her. see if something is bothering her. could just be hormones.. scary i know!