Hi,
Been where you are. She would wake up with her eye crusted shut. The doctor would say use a warm wet cloths and massage the tear duct...yadda, yadda. I guess for some it does clear up but my daughters never did. I kept pressing my doctor for a solution. They kept saying, usually by a year it clears up.
Goopy baby eye was not the life I wanted for her first year of life. She was such a happy healthy baby and everytime everyone saw her that didn't know about her clogged tear ducts, they would say, "Oh sad baby" or "Oh is she sick?" It was sad too because I could tell most were uncomfortable looking at her because of her eye. I even think her grandparents didn't bond with her because of it.
At her 12 month check up, I had had it. I insisted that we do something. They sent me to Long Beach Family Medical Eye Center near Long Beach Memorial Hospital. I saw a doctor who did eye duct probes. He explained the proceedure to me as if our eyes are a sink drain. Just like the water goes down the drain, the tears are supposed to go down the back of the throat and fall onto the back of the tongue. Because the duct is clogged or not formed properly, he goes in like Roto Rooter (his words, not mine) and clears that drain. He also said that if you wait longer than 2 years of age, the chances of it clogging again and needing another surgery jumps up significantly in percentage. Eldery patience have this proceedure often too because as they age, their "plumbing" can get clogged more easily.
At 13 months she went under for surgery and the very next day woke up with perfect clear "goopy free" eyes. I cried. It was such a relief to all of us but for the first time since she was born I could finally just see her pretty face.
It was a hard decision before but such and easy decision in hind sight. It was very a emotional time. She was frightened a bit before but I got to be with her while the put her under with gas. It was sad to watch. She woke up not feeling well and was shaking and crying alot but by the time we got her home, she was eating and feeling great. We even took her to the park later that day. The build up to the decision is worse than the actual event itself.
The surgery only took 15 minutes but we had to prepare her from not eating the night before, and arriving super early with no bottles. Most hospitals let the babies get first dibs on surgery times since they know they can't go long with no bottles.
My daughter is about to be 2 this month and I'm so glad we took care of it when we did. Actually, I wish we had done is sooner but according to the surgeon, that age was the perfect age to the best result and to avoid another surgery later.
Ask your doctor for a referral if at 10 months it doesn't clear up. That way you can set things in motion for when she turns one and maybe even have it done before her first birthday. I had to constantly wipe her eye all day so we could get good birthday pictures minus the goopy eye.
PS. I do notice now that when she cries, her tears seem to leak from her nose more. It's fine with me though because it's easier and safer to wipe a runny nose than her eye over and over.
Good luck. M.