B.C.
How worried about her transplant is she? Could this guy be a coping fantasy about a life beyond her illness? Does she think traveling 2000 miles away will somehow allow her to leave her troubles behind her or that with her condition, this is the best she can do in finding a man? I don't know if this guy was always 2000 miles away, but it seems like a very unrealistic relationship. Don't tell her that. This relationship fantasy is providing something for her, but only some therapy might help her figure out what it is. Whether he's a jerk or not, finishing his collage is a good idea, but it might also be just his excuse he gives to your daughter. He might not be that thrilled if she shows up on his doorstep.